Dear Stephanie:

You wrote: “I am an INFP”- a personality type term, Introverted, Intuitive, Feeling, Perceiving. You wrote about your relationship that it was “an intensely spiritual and metaphysical relationship for 4 years”.

Then you described a situation where the man fell in love with another woman and ended the relationship with you, not by telling you anything, but by telling your mother: “I never want to see her again” and then blocking all contact with you.

You also stated that you suffer from a rare and incurable disease for which the survival rate is 60%.

I would like to attempt to answer your questions and it will take some time because I need more information. You asked about his motives. You stated one motive: he fell in love with another woman. For me to understand further, I ask: how did it come about that he ended the relationship by talking to your mother: did she call him/ did he call her/ were they in contact then and still?

When you wrote it was a May-December relationship, do you mean that during the four years it was long distance January-April?

How has your disease affect him during those four years?

And can you elaborate on what you meant by the relationship with him having been an “intensely spiritual and metaphysical”?

anita