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NightFlower
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Thank you all for responding back, I really do appreciate it. He’s currently still struggling but we’ve had a calm talk. He said I have done nothing wrong and I’m nothing more than wonderful to him. That his distance and needing space has nothing to do with me. So i’ve been focusing on myself, spending time with friends and just keeping busy. I feel it’s also a big wake up call for myself because I want to be able to stand strong no matter what happens. I’ve also realized I’ve become comfortable and lost some confidence in myself, I’m not sure if that has any thing to do with him but it’s something I need to work on. A part of me thinks he’s prolonging a break-up but he’s reassured me that’s not it, so I try not to let my insecurities get the best of me. He’s been very distant lately but he still texts me briefly about his day and goodnight before he sleeps. It’s taking some adapting since I’m use to us calling every night and texting throughout the day. I’m just trying to stay positive and be there for him when he needs. Some days I’m feeling great and doing my own thing and some days I feel really sad and lonely, but I remind myself to push myself to not dwell, stay positive. Whatever happens, happens.