We also had an interesting talk about Marriage which he had brought up. Prior to this conversation shortly after one year of being together he had asked me about timelines and marriage. He mentioned he never thought about marriage, having children until he met me. He wanted us to talk about a dream, a plan. Fast forward to last week, he mentioned he might not believe in marriage anymore because 90% of his family has gotten divorced. Its really strange he brings this up since many of his own friends are happily married but he has some sort of fear that what happened to his parents are to repeat to him. He recently started mentioning his own parents divorce much more often these two weeks. He communicates how it hurts but how he’s slowly forgiving and understanding his parents mistakes which scarred him badly. This was a really intense talk with some sad tones from him. From that moment on, he  was not in the mood for intimacy (twice, both separate times), even though we had a great day with quality time and deep great conversations together. We’ve never had that problem before. I’ve been thinking about it for some while. I can’t help but take it a little personally but he says it has nothing to do with me, so I shook it off then.