Dear Jenny Lynn:

In your descriptions of his behavior and the interactions between the two of you I don’t see evidence of abuse. I have no idea whether he is unreasonable or more unreasonable than you are.

Your descriptions are simply not informative enough, too entertaining-like, as if…. I am thinking this whole boyfriends thing, relationships, again, reads to me like it is all a distraction, a drama thing that prevents you from feeling the unhappiness you will be left with if undistracted.

So who is moving out from the place you share: is he or are you going to move out? Clear to me that not living together will be a good idea.

anita