Dear Sophie:

Welcome back and congratulations for executing your plan to move to Canada.

Regarding your changing feelings to this new man in your life: I think it is understandable, that your feelings for him change.

When a man is not interested in you, or is interested in you in a very limited way, then you might feel the same craving for him, the same exhilaration when with him, the craving is in that exhilaration. People often feel the same craving a lifetime.

But when you are in a relationship with a man who is interested in you, then sometimes you feel that same craving and at other times you feel fear following doubt. It is not just the craving.

Does this make sense to you?

anita