Could it be that you lost interest because he already confesses his love for you? He’s already conquered and the excitement is gone! Many of us are attracted to the thrill of the catch, wanting what we can’t have.  I’m one of these people, always attracting emotionally unavailable men, hence, still single. The guys that genuinely liked me and were nice to me I didn’t want because they didn’t make enough money or not handsome enough. I found shallow excuses not be with them. I was always chasing after the next best thing and wanted to win their love.  It was futile! It took me a while to figure this out and going forward, I’ll shift my expectations and see how it goes.  Could you be doing the same thing? Fear of commitment?