Dear carolinavu9:

It is your right to not live with a person who uses cocaine. It is your right to choose to not live with a man for any reason.

Although it is not a legal right (in most places if not all) to use cocaine, it is his choice. He doesn’t see it as a problem in his life, other than in the relationship with you.

Fighting with him (yet again), saying terrible things to him, as you have done, is wrong. And it is ineffective. So is talking to him… yet again about all that you already have.

Reads to me that his drug use is a serious problem for you, that it distresses you a lot. Is it not better to move out than it is to suffer… and to cause him suffering?

* Will be back to the computer in about seventeen hours. I hope you get replies from other members before then.

anita