Dear carolinavu9:

You are welcome. In your recent post you wrote that you are not sure if his occasional cocaine use should be a deal breaker for you or an opportunity for you to practice unconditional love for him.

If you tried the second, tried it better this time, what kinds of thoughts will you adopt so to help you feel more accepting of the occasional drug use and what will you be saying to yourself next time he uses?

* If you can think what is true to reality and these thoughts will bring you peace, then it may be possible for you to accept and make peace with his behavior as you expressed it here.

anita