Dear Stephania:

You are welcome. A key sentence in your original post is: “I also feel I’ve been set up for failure”.

If living with this man is too difficult for you, is distressing to you on an ongoing basis, again and again, and there is no correcting going on (he attending psychotherapy so to… even out that “chemical imbalance” he believes he suffers from, and/ or the two of you attending couple psychotherapy), then it is better to no longer live together.

As I wrote in my last post to you, things need to change. One of you moving out may be the thing that needs to be done.

anita