Agreed, but do we have to separate? I know we each have work to do on ourselves. We’ve been such a good team (including our 4 kids). There was no counseling or reconciliation even suggested. From what I see now as our false sense of happiness to, “I’m done.” My wife has histirorically not been much of an, “actress” when it comes to emotions. She loved and showed it, but now we (including the children) are dumbfounded by the new emotionless figure she’s become. I know I shouldnt, but I feel responsible.