Hi everyone,

Im in a similar situation. Except my “ex” is someone who i had a fling with during a break with my boyfriend. Me and my boyfriend have been together almost 6 years. Last year was rocky and we took a 5 month break. For 2 months i spent time with another guy. I swear i was in love with him. However, i decided to cut ties and go back to my long term relationship.

I am very happy in my relationship, i love my boyfriend so so much.  But i forever think about the other guy. We’re on 9 months of no contact at all, and my heart hurts whenever i tthink about him. Will i ever let him go?

I know i made the right decision by ending it and going back to my boyfriend, so why am i still hurting?