fbpx
Menu

Reply To: HELP Am I in a relationship but still in love with my ex? Cant figure it out!

HomeForumsRelationshipsHELP Am I in a relationship but still in love with my ex? Cant figure it out!Reply To: HELP Am I in a relationship but still in love with my ex? Cant figure it out!

#191109
Jenny Lynn
Participant

Hey! Hey! 🙂

Me and Glens Anniversary was Sunday so I thought about you and wanted to chat.

Things have been going well. A few arguments here and there but nothing huge.

He’s reduced his level of dramatics and I have increased my understanding of them so that helps balance it out. I think when I would give off this vibe like “What your feelings is silly” that would escalate things. So basically I take how he feels more seriously even if I don’t agree.

He apologies for his actions now….we are still working on WORDS though.

We have been good lately really been connecting. I’ve been really focusing on my relationship with him without other distractions. I see some of the things he used to kind of say because I wanted to kind of put him as my priority. He used to tell me like “Oh you tell people other things before you tell me” or “You call other people when your at work etc.”

I’ve been involving him more in my day because he his who I want to tell and I guess telling my best friend kind of used to make me forget to tell him you know. So when something happened at work I would call him like “Babe guess what happened” or “remember what we talked about this just happened” I can tell that it really does make him feel good.

Thanksgiving we went to my family’s house and Christmas we went to his moms. That was the first time I really met her. His step dad and brother were also there and I ended up cooking dinner for him and his brother that day. He invited me to his brothers basketball game which was nice. I reallllly didn’t want to go because it was cold and I didn’t feel good. But he asked 🙂 so I couldn’t say no. I think his mom likes me pretty well.

AND guess what?!!! We went to Dinner the night of our Anniversary and FRIGGIN LEO worked at the restaurant we were at! Oh my goodness! I’m sure you can only imagine my face. OH! and Glens face too considering even though he wasn’t our server it just so happened that he brought the food to our table looking me straight in the face. To say the least it was unexpected