Thanks Mark, it’s such a shame as we have the same interests and were attracted to each other and had lots of plans of fun things to do. I think it wasn’t the right time for me and it certainly wasn’t the right time for him. He should never have got into a relationship with me with all of that going on, it happened in June. The social work thing is in relation to what his son from the marriage did to his daughter from the other woman so he can see all his kids but the kids are not allowed to see each other and die to this the ex wife is in denial and wants him dead and daughter marriage hasn’t spoke to him since June. The other daughter that was hurt is too young to understand why she can’t see her brother and sister and is now getting counselling too.

I suppose I am asking if the depression and anxiety of all of that and his new job and then us niggling each other has got too much and that’s why he has left or is it that he just doesn’t love me. I felt so much from him that I don’t want to let it go. I want to be there for him and help him through. I got angry after a week of nothing and sent a horrible message because I was hurt and I’m thinking any chance of reconciliation is now lost. I miss him terribly, I saw what he saw but seems life got in the way 🙁 I haven’t mesagednro apologise after no response so I’m just trying to move on but it’s so hard when he spoke so lovingly about the future 🙁