Dear Buddha Buddi:

If I understand you correctly, her motivation for leaving is that she has been used to be financially supported by others in her life, by you in the last ten years, but recently she found out that you were in a financial debt, and she is recently making more money than she did in her life. She doesn’t want to share what she considers to be her money with you. Having paid $900 for your vehicle lately is something she hated doing. She didn’t like you spending money on your daughters throughout the years, but endured it somehow because there was still enough for her and her children. Until recently, your debt and her higher paying job rendered you useless for her.

My goodness, if this is the case, you didn’t have much of a family in these ten years, isn’t it so? I mean, a woman who was with you because of financial convenience doesn’t warm up the heart, does it.

anita