Although I wouldn’t rule out that logic,  I don’t think of it that way. I know her and don’t believe that just because she didn’t have much when I met her that money was a requirement. I wasn’t exacyly “rich” when she met me, just stable. I feel it’s more that she has money now and wants to protect it – new to being able to do it on her own. After all this, of course I’m still feeling the same love and probably wouldn’t believe that even if she told me that’s what was going on.

I’m working through many things right now for myself. However, I have to learn how to love her without her being here. Do you have any suggestions?

I also would like to tell you that I appreciate your responses and have one personal question for you. Are you married? I’m not flirting, but after reading several of your advice posts I’m just curious.