Dear Jenny Lynn:

You described before how much he loves you, and that, at the time, was a positive thing in my mind, that he feels so intensely about you. I hoped that you and him can engage in a Win-Win relationship. But the new information I have, or the new information I am now aware of is that on a daily basis and for a long time he is looking for evidence that you are cheating on him or otherwise doing him wrong.

He is busy looking for evidence, and because he is looking, he might find it. Not real evidence as I trust you are loyal to him as you have been to every boyfriend before him, but as it reads somewhere: “seek and ya shall find”.

He may not behave violently when he finds what he is looking for, but he might. It is not unheard of that people not violent before act violently when they find out that they were cheated on, or otherwise betrayed.

The intensity of his feelings for you, viewed in this light, is not a positive thing.

Will be back (after a short post I will do next) in about fifteen hours or so. Take good care of yourself.

anita