Dear Jenny Lynn:

Good that you checked his criminal record, a good practice.

I am not clear. Maybe you can help me understand by answering with less words, less details and as clearly as you can:

In your mind, as you see things, is there a significant and ongoing problem with Glen, like him being paranoid, looking for evidence that you cheat on him, that you lie him?

Are you experiencing distress about being watched by him, accused of stuff, living like a suspect under the supervision of someone watching and eager to point to you where you are guilty…?

Are you distressed by #1, 2 and 3?

anita