I think it was significant then; when we conflicted more. But I still see it as something that is on going cuz it still occasionally comes up in our lives.

I feel like in order to truly see if what I am saying goes to that magnitude I have to kind of test it & see if what is occurring here is a real issue.

Over the next 2 months (Lease is up April) That’s what I will do. That’s what I wanted (In peace between me and him not bickering everyday). To figure out if I want to continue to give my time and life to him. Like you said he isn’t my husband.

I want to talk about it with him. Let him see how this looks to me.

But “Are you experiencing distress about being watched by him, accused of stuff, living like a suspect under the supervision of someone watching and eager to point to you where you are guilty…?”

In regards to NOW, I don’t feel that way. When things were more hostile it did cause me distress, that’s why I was so fed up. Over all our relationship then was exhausting.

Now, I just think he does too much sometimes. A little too emotional.

I just have to see things for what they are and make a educated decision in a few weeks.