Dear Cw:

I don’t know if he indeed turned cold to you at first, at least. Maybe he was busy, didn’t call you as much one day, you perceived it was because he didn’t care to when he was only busy. Maybe then you expressed your anger at him, and as a result he really did turn cold. This is a possibility and from reading your original post I have no way of knowing the reality of your relationship.

Feeling like you are “a toy to kill time when he’s free” is not an acceptable way to experience a relationship. Whether in his mind you are a toy, I don’t know.

If you block him you will be making a clear move toward ending the communication with him. I suppose it will make you feel better, relieved. But it will end the communication.

Talking about communication, reads to me that it would be a good idea to improve that part in that relationship and in any one to come, to ask and listen, to share and have him listen. That way you can learn what the other person’s motivations are, what he is thinking and feeling. You can get that information if the two of you are honest with each other and if the two  of you feel safe and comfortable to share with the other honestly and openly.

anita