Hi
Just from my experience, a guy I was seeing had told me about previous relationships and he had ended then saying ” he wasn’t in a good place” and ” needed to be on his own to sort himself out”
He couldn’t understand why they would get in touch every so often after split and I told him it’s because he had left them with some hope when in reality he had told me he just wasnyw into them.
Told me I was different, 1 year later I get the same “I’m no good for you, I need to sort myself out”
He doesn’t he just is bored of me now
I think a lot of guys think this is a more gentle way to break up with a girl but it’s not as it leaves it open when honestly would allow them to move on.
Lou X
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