Dear Mathilde-S:

When you liked that guy so much, seems to me that you liked him a lot before you got to know him. And you assumed things that were not true to him and to the relationship with him. You assumed he felt the same as you did, assumed he was motivated same as you were and therefore you expected him to feel and behave certain ways.

Liking a man and feeling attracted to a man is not an indication that it is.. meant to be. It only means that you are motivated to have a relationship with him.

Get to know a man before you assume, act on what you learn about him. Get to know him gradually.

anita