Dear Katie:

In your original post you wrote: “he just sits there whilst I cry or tells me I’m ‘too much’ and bring him down”. Unless he is dishonest in this communication, reads to me that indeed, for him, you are too much and you bring him down. But he stays with you because..?

You wrote: “the problem is he… just kinda wants to have fun and do what he wishes and what he pleases” and you, on the other hand, “like to be productive, driven person ith big goals and aspirations”-

be it that the two of you have been dating for only a few months, and that you have a solid understanding of who he is at this time in his life, and there is a mismatch, a lack of compatibility, reads to me that indeed you should let him go (title of your thread).

anita