Dear sunseeker1:

Welcome back.

I was wondering, two years ago (you just turned 35 then), on your Feb 25 thread, you had the same situation, this job and the same flat. In two years didn’t you earn enough money to save so that you would  be able to afford currently working abroad for three months and pay rent on your flat before you leave, for those three months?

I am also wondering why you cannot take time off from your job of 4 years, a 3 month time off, so that you can return to it in 3 months?

That way if something wonderful happens abroad and you can stay there (or in another country) you can return home, close your affairs there and move abroad more permanently. And if it doesn’t work out abroad you will have the same job and the same flat to return to.

anita