Dear Trixie:

In your last post you wrote: “there is my daughter who’s not too sure what’s going on asking why dad and mommy keeping fighting.” The issue for your four year old is not: Tom or Harry. Her issue is the fighting.

Your daughter is not able to post on this or any website. She is only four.

Please do all that you can so that there is no fighting, none whatsoever, in her presence. If you provide her a safe home, if you correct the damage done to her so far by the fighting, you will be preventing her from a lot of suffering in her life. Give her the safety she needs and it will benefit her and you, on the long run.

anita