Dear Mark,

Its kind of you to take the time to advise me.

Looking into the five languages of love seems like a great idea. I’m sure my boyfriend will be as willing to try as I am (even if he doesn’t read to book).

I recently read a book by Scott Peck who spends a lot of time writing about how we must love in a way which encourages our own spiritual growth and others whom we love. There is no way to read this book without realising that accepting full responsibility for how and what one thinks and how one behaves is the only way to grow.

Getting tired or drained is killer. It’s at this time that putting mind over matter is so challenging and my touch-needy child works herself up.

thanks again for the recommendation

B