Hi Annya,

i think you might be overthinking. How do you know if you hurt him? You say you are awkward (we all are in certain situation) but he may be a bit shy and awkward too. If I were you I wouldn’t worry about it and ask him to go get coffee next time you see him. If you are afraid he’ll bolt too quickly ask him before class…or go all grade school on him and pass him a note that simply says “wanna get coffee? I guess what I’m saying is dont make this more difficult than it is. I have agonized over things far too often and then took a shot at it and all turned out and I wondered why I agonized in the first place. Just ask him, if he says yes great, if he says no then you can forget about and move on…im betting you’ll get yes. GO FOR IT!