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We didn’t really argue that much in general. It was never over anything big. Just little disagreements I guess I would call them. Most of the time it was one of us overreacting to something the other one said, or interpreting it the wrong way, or one of us would be feeling insecure about something. And we never yelled at each other, put each other down or anything like that. We would both explain what we were feeling and then resolve it in a timely manner. He said he felt that we weren’t resolving things and were arguing over the same thing, which i’m not really sure what he’s referring to. A lot of the time they would turn into a bigger deal because he would react by saying “I’m just the worst” or “you should just break up with me because I’m shitty and you shouldn’t settle for that” which would then make me more frustrated because I never said any of those things, and that’s not what I wanted. So I guess that was one of the main things we would argue about. Not even the thing that upset us in the first place – but how he would react to it.