Maybe a better example would be about a week ago he was hanging out with one of his friends that he hasn’t seen in a while. I told him that I would text him later to let him have time to just hang out with that friend. And he got upset because he thought I was saying I just wanted him to leave me alone, which is been a problem in the past. Because I have said oh I’ll just leave you alone when I felt like I was interrupting something he was doing. But I texted him back saying that’s not what I meant and that’s not what I wanted, but he continued to just ignore me for a few hours. When he finally responded I told him I was upset that he didn’t text me back or at least acknowledge the fact that I told him I didn’t want him to just leave me alone. He then got defensive saying that whenever I said that, he was hard for him to understand what I actually wanted. To which again I said, but I texted you saying I didn’t mean I wanted you to leave me alone.  So just stupid little stuff like that. None of our arguments, or whatever I should call them, we’re over anything big or serious.