Hey Phyleen,

Take a step back and read what you wrote. Look at it as something that someone else wrote. I bet you will see that the answer is right in front of you. You need someone in your life that makes you feel good about yourself and makes you better by just being around him right? Well does your ex make you feel that way? Sounds like the new guy does. Sometimes we have to close one chapter of our life and open up a new one. Close the chapter on the ex. The new guy sounds like you won’t be having the problems with the fighting and back and forth crazy stuff. Let your family know that the new guy is right for you and you don’t need negative in your life.

Now if I could only take my own advise!! Lol!!

Hope this helped