All of this has been drama so not really no…just that without the rose colored glasses some of the things he does are truly ridiculous comedy to me.

To the person who doesn’t love him these things are obvious. But I am usually to busy reacting to the button he tries to press then actually looking at all the trouble he is going thru just trying to make me feel some kind of way….so yes. Yes! that is a insightful way to look at it.

What if he put just as much effort in these moments into wanting to see me happy. I wish he wanted me happy too. As a women we all know the very unoriginal yet go to ways any man can make it clear that 1. he is sorry 2. you are missed and valued and 3. you arent going anywhere without him…lol

..sadly I think he is experiencing it the way you described above. Maybe thats the only way he can cope…I mean think about it..if he cant focus on me and what I am doing over these days that bother him…He would actually have to think about what he did to contribute to us being in this situation not just looking for more ammunition to validate the feelings hes is having.

Thing is…I already know mutually what went on here. So I can go directly to “I am sad about the present!”. He is too busy trying to validate his want to truthfully “NOT CARE”

What will be a shame is that when he blinks and realizes he spent so much time doing this, trying to hold on to his pride, trying to make some point.. that he actually didn’t realize how important I am to him and by then I’ll be over it because of how he is acting.

Thing about me is..its really really hard lol to not like me during a break up. I’m too nice.. I mean I am a nice person overall but really; since we have already had one conflict and now our relationship is over why would I continue to be in your way. So EVERYTHING I do generally is ultra polite, I just stay out of the way of anything to provoke more conflict (which would fuel him and his rationale at this time) I just say screw it. If he says something to me and I feel he has a attitude, your gf would have a come back. Not your gf….is saying ok and going back in the room because I AM NOT about to argue with him.

Yet also I have to acknowledge that he truthfully could just really not care. Crazy and hard to believe but maybe he had enough too..who knows?