I  agree. Most people take bad things and hope that someone can tell them otherwise. Because of the natural human want to avoid bad things we will inevitable take almost anything someone will give us to derationalize something bad someone has done…which is why we believe liars. Most people want to see the good in those they care about.

HIM? ..he makes these assumptions… like you’re mad the sky is red…you keep talking about it being red and how annoyed you are by it. I am here with the facts! & HAVE NO FEAR babe cuz guess what its BLUE not RED and I have 10 ways to show/tell/prove to you. So he can not be upset right? But he actually has no intention of letting someone remove his facade of anger or actually listening with the idea that what that person is saying is true. He just wants to be mad and have the world apologize for the red sky…He doesn’t care. he just wants to feel how he is feeling because sadly sometimes I think he would almost rather be right and justified than happy…

Something that happened during the conflict that day made him metaphorically pick up a piece of *She wronged me/I didn’t like that* and that’s what he is holding onto.

It could be overall me saying it was over…(provoked) after him calling me names.

As irrational as me and you both know the above statement to be…(being mad that the person you love has self respect and ended the relationship over being BLATANTLY disrespected)….he attached on something that is fueling his reaction(s).

Because he has found a reason to be upset it over takes my ACTUAL tangible reason to be upset. He can’t see the forest through the trees.

Your last statement was….wooooo…yeah. Gosh, It is crazy I can have so much confidence in the ideals I express about what I know he will do when he is angry cyclically I know it like the back of my hand. He chooses anger over me every time….