Dear Jenny Lynn:

Regarding: “it’s just so frustrating to look back and see all you did for someone, what you gave up, what could  have been/what else…”- this waste of time and effort you are referring to, I know this waste very well from my own experience. I wasted tons of time, my whole youth… lots of energy, tons, money and all resources I had, the life I could have had if only… the experiences I didn’t have.

It is not the exception, I learned, to waste most of one’s life. It is the rule. Look at Glenn, he is wasting his life in anger and most likely will continue to do so for the rest of his life. And he will cause others to waste much of their lives, hoping and wishing to change him.

All you can do is learn from your experience, so to waste less of your day and future. Waste is the norm, wise living is the exception. Make your life today and every day going forward less and less of that norm.

anita