Dear Jenny Lynn:

Not all imperfections are created equal. There are imperfections in people you can work with and there are imperfections that are too great, too entrenched, too difficult to be workable.

Glenn’s imperfection is too great for any woman to work with. No matter what you did in the past, with Glenn, however wise, there is nothing you could have done to work well with him being stuck in anger.

There is nothing you could have done to change him. The extent of his angry reaction is so great, so reliable, you can so depend on it… it is not subject to your input. It is not about you and not in your power to change.

Your only choice, as I see it, is to either be a victim to his anger or exit the relationship.

What do you think?

anita