Very good point.

The things I cannot change: How he interprets my actions, How he reacts to feeling “wronged”, how he feels about me overall, That he doesn’t see fault in how he addresses his grievances, That I cannot force him to see it and CHANGE. I cannot make him who I would LIKE for him to be in order to have a healthy functioning relationship.

Courage to act…Courage to understand that sometimes all you can do is remove myself, I can speak my mind on what I feel, That I can say no and that I have had enough, That I can change my lifestyle and my mindset to remove those who take from who I AM. To create boundaries in the future and don’t allow people take advantage or take me for granted. That if someone doesnt appreciate me…leave

Knowing the difference between what I truthfully have control over and dont…to stop holding myself accountable for the choices that are inevitably someone elses… as if I FAILED..