Dear Asja:

Yes, there are good men in this world, of course there are.

All boys and all girls are born good. Many boys and many girls become bad, or abusive, harmful to others repeatedly and without correction as they grow older, as they become adults and age.

Protecting yourself and your little daughter from harm, from abuse, is the right thing for you to do, as a mother, a woman and a person.

Are you living separately from your husband and planning a divorce?

anita