Hi anita,

YOu are absolutely right, moving out is the first step, my mind is everywhere at the moment, I feel ill with it all, today has so far been a blur I have even forgotten to drop my son off at pre school, I wanted to get out the flat as soon as possible and so I took my son with me early this morning and we have only just got back and I am shaking with anxiety over it. I am just trying to centre myself but I think you are right I need to leave here asap, I have to give a months notice to leave and wales is in a month. I have been looking here also, only money is a big issue at the moment and so its been difficult with my state of mind and also to find somewhere that’s within my budget.

Friends here in the area I live now are keeping there ears open in case there is anything around here but I think my priority is to leave this flat at all costs, one of the tenants swore at me in the street yesterday and I was with my son. It is all just too much. My only worry is that I am leaving my friends I have made here to go to wales but I suppose I can always come back. My other worry is that I will go to Wales and after a couple of weeks want to leave and have no where to go but I suppose that’s just a fear .

Thank you Anita I appreciate your advice