Dear tori:

You are welcome. In your original post you wrote: “I started dating this guy, and he made me happier than I had ever been. We never fought or had any issues”-

Looking back to then from where you are now, seems like the relationship was happy for you for as long as it was because he kept his issues hidden, pushed down, denied or rationalized away.

The “one day out of the blue” he breaks up with you, then get back together, and you work with him like a team. As if you were a team. You acted like one of a two people team. Not him.

Reads like he goes to great lengths to avoid conflicts on the outside, with you, for one, and then, when he can’t continue to avoid it, he ends the situation altogether.

I hope your relationship with him is not re-established, as that happiness together can be only temporary, until the .. next time.

anita