Anita,

Thank you for pointing that out because I am still unfortunately confused about what those issues are. Every fight, which was usually about our communication kind of just got forgotten about. He wouldn’t tell me how he felt and I’ve expressed to him that he needs to because I think he had these issues with me that I never even knew about until the end. He said I’d never apologize to him, I think I’m always right and that I needed to get over my ego. But during the relationship, he never brought up those issues with me to where I could’ve realized that’s how he felt so I could change it. Which circles back to our communication issue because I think that him not opening himself up to me stunted the conversation and we both kinda felt that. Looking back, maybe he was afraid to open himself up to me because I can be harsh and unthoughtful at times. But I wish I had known this then so I could’ve worked on myself but now I know, I can be better.