Dear dreaming715:

Reads like a good strategy to me, to practice detachment during the wedding.

The title of your thread is “I can’t stop crying..”- having read your threads over time I got to know you as a very rational person. Your rational part is very strong and keeps you moving through difficulties.

I also got to know your boyfriend through your threads and my impression is that he is a decent man. He was slow from the beginning, in the relationship with you, consistent from the very start, that is, being rational himself, cautious, planning ahead.

anita