Dear hanna:

During the time he was working 15 hours a day, living in your town, when he understandably didn’t have much time to spend with you, were there arguments or fights between the two of you?

Let’s say you pressured him to spend more time with you, time he didn’t have. That would explain to me why he became distant and not want to form a commitment to you even after his grueling schedule.

If you didn’t pressure him at all, that would be a different story.

anita