Dear Katie:

You wrote about your husband: “he’s made several ‘jokes’ today about something I’ve been telling him, that I need to start repeating it when he’s in bed and needing something to help him nod off. I don’t know if this would probably come off as trivial..”

What specifically were you telling him?

Depending on what it was that you told him, his “joke” can be anywhere from ineffective communication to a red flag (what your therapist since January said she didn’t see yet in the marriage).

anita