Thank you Anita and michelle. I’ve blocked him completely now incase he tries to contact me again, I cannot do this anymore despite how hard it is. I still work where I met him (thankfully he no longer does) and it’s so hard as so much reminds me of him there. A lot of the ‘firsts’ between us. Do you think that I would be foolish to look for a new job? I’m not sure if it’s being too dramatic. Atm though it’s killing me this week going in every day. I can’t seem to escape him – at home or at work everything reminds me of him