Dear FullOfRemorse:

I don’t think it is a good idea to change jobs just because the work place reminds you of him. After all can’t change everything (“everything reminds me of him”).

No contact with him is an excellent idea, congratulations for blocking him.

I see it as a probability that if he was in your life, there would be plenty of the pain you have already experienced with having him in your  life so far. Your children, you shared, already witnessed that pain.

I don’t think you clearly see what I believe is true: that it is a good, good idea to leave him behind and close the door.

Post again anytime and when I am at the computer, I will reply.

anita