Hello,

thank you for your thoughts:)

Well, I don’t really know what his pattern is…when he was young, he was in a relationship of 4 years and he was cheated on by that girl at the end…then he had various relationships and experiences, some very open, some a bit more serious. He keeps on bringing up the fact that love should be a free act, non dependent (which yes, I can understand, but this does not mean we should do crappy things to people). And also he said that the 2 of us are connected by something strong, that he wants a relationship, but he needs to figure out what type of relationship…

I was thinking to break the NC and try again to see if we can make it work, I am afraid that the distance will break us apart. But I feel that if I do that it will only put pressure on him and I won’t solve anything…He is a Pisces, I am a Leo, although I don’t guide my life after the zodiac, I read some stuff about this and our compatibility is a true challenge…I don’t know what gets me stuck in here…maybe my fear of being alone, my need for love…the romantic in me 🙂

Yeah, you do have a point, I think I gave him very much power over me which in the end is not very attractive…and I don’t know if he can see me differently..or if he wants to try to see me differently, because in the end, I can be more than just one way…

It’s the 2nd time I was cheated on in a relationship (the 1st time also by a Pisces guy) and I just hate to see this happens again. I don’t get it why I keep attracting this type of men in my life.