Dear Happi:

I agree with you, the world is indeed unfair.

I didn’t know that he is still talking with her. I assumed that when he told you that “he is ready to do whatever”, not talking to her is part of that “whatever”. He still expresses that not hurting her feelings (by not talking to her) is more of a priority for him than not hurting your feelings.

Well, life is unfair, but you don’t have to make it even more unfair by your choices. Maybe it will be fair for you to break up with him for good. Maybe that will be fair.

anita