Hi 🙂 I’m really struggling today. I felt okay over the weekend, the pain was still there but I felt I had accepted that the relationship had come to an end and felt a certain positivity about it. However as soon as I woke up this morning I felt that crushing feeling again. Haven’t stopped thinking of him all day and had to stop myself crying a few times. On my lunchbreak when I checked my phone he had messaged me for the first time since I cut contact saying “I can’t stop thinking of you” I was elated and before I even thought about it I had replied saying I felt the same. Lots of thoughts were racing through my mind, we always seemed to be feeling or thinking the same while we were in a relationship, it was uncanny. Hearing him mirror what I had been going through all morning really got to me.  I was left feeling that he is definately the one, my soul mate etc etc. However he’s read it and not responded. I feel utterly down and heartbroken again. I feel again, like I don’t know where I stand with him. All my resolve and positivity has vanished. I miss him so much it hurts. Why would he say that if he didn’t mean it? I’m finding it hard to understand his motives. Should I message and ask him why he sent that?