Dear Simona:

As to your suggestion that he might have been mature then but is not mature anymore- I don’t think it is possible to reverse maturity. He sounded mature then but he wasn’t mature then.

As to the lying, yes, reads to me that he does lie. Problem with a person who lies repeatedly or habitually is that they don’t lie all the times, there are truths here and there. (No liar lies all the time). It is difficult or impossible to figure out when the person lies and when he or she is telling the truth. Trying to figure this out is exhausting, futile, and crazy making.

From what you shared, I don’t get the feeling that he is able to be mature and loving with someone else but not with you. And I don’t believe he was mature and is no longer mature.

anita