Dear Liz:

A horrific childhood with terrible affects on you and the two siblings you mentioned.

Regarding your second marriage to your third husband: the deal was that the re-marriage will improve your financial situation and in turn you will take care of him when he is sick. Entering into the deal was your impression that he became kinder and less angry after the first marriage to him ended.

The first two items to the deal still exist, correct: your financial situation is better and that makes you feel better?

And you take care of him when he is sick?

anita