Hi Christy,

yes the inner monologue is always killer. It either makes or breaks my days sometimes. One bad thing and suddenly my day is ruined and I feel like I can’t make it better.

however what you said about other people’s achievements having no effect on you – I don’t think I understand. I always thought that if someone’s success or failure pulls a string inside you, it means something about that action is important to you. For example, if you’re always jealous of thin and fit people, maybe you secretly want to be fit (true in my case).