Dear Matt:

It is possible that this particular woman is not right for you. I want to understand better, therefore I ask regarding the pattern you mentioned, the feeling of anxiety within the previous four relationships:

1. Did you have a relationship with a woman prior to these where you didn’t feel anxiety, where you were sure about your feelings?

2. In the home of your childhood, in the context of your relationship with your mother, with your father, were you anxious?

anita